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Submissions for the gift exchange are now closed. Thanks for your time.


Oh yes, it’s nearly Christmas. Well, by nearly I mean a fair while but from this point forward you should know it’s happening. You’ll start hearing carols as you shop, and seeing tinsel where you walk. It’s happening.

Each year, since 2012 {I think I did one in 2011, but it was a little different}, I’ve been hosting an international gift exchange where people from all over the world trade gifts with people they’ve never met before. It’s a really fun, heart-warming movement to be involved in. If you’re into feel-good stuff, I’d love for you to take part {everyone is welcome}.

I’m just going to jump right in and tell you how it works.


You let me know you’re interested in playing along. You decide whether you want to send just within your own country {to save on postage costs} or whether you want to play worldwide. I give you someone to buy a gift for. We create a Facebook group where people ask questions. You stalk your partner and decide what to buy them, from their responses to those questions. You send them a gift wrapped all pretty {the budget is $25 – more details below}. They get really happy. You get all warm and fuzzy.

Sound like something you want to be involved in? Yes? Awesome. Just read all the things below so you’re across ALL the details.

This year I’m running it a little bit differently. Each year there are people that join up, and have no intention of playing along. They think FREE GIFTS, they play along and they get a free gift and never send anything out. It kills me a little inside each year. In order to inject a bit of accountability into the exchange I’m adding an initial extra step.

I’m asking if you want to participate in the exchange you donate AU$5 to my charity of choice, Rafiki Mwema. This is a great thing to do. For those that don’t know Rafiki Mwema is a safe house in Kenya for girls that have had unimaginable things happen to them. You can read about it here. It’s a beautiful charity, doing beautiful things.


I hope you understand my decision in adding in this step. I know this all sounds like so many rules. I can promise you this is a whole lot of love-filled fun. It is! I just want to get across how things are run this year before we get to all the fun bits!


Anyone can play. You must have a Facebook account to join, so that you can join our private Facebook group and be social. If you don’t have Facebook but really want to play along, I suggest you create one! It is preferred that you have an Instagram account too {but not essential}.


The budget for your gift is $25, so that means you should spend a minimum of $25 on your person. This is to keep it fair for everyone. If you’re crafty, by all means make something that your partner will like but make sure it’s around that in value, or add it in on top of something else that you’ve purchased for your partner. Postage is not included in this budget. Postage is on top of the $25 amount. If you’re going to buy a $25 very heavy gift, be mindful that it’s going to cost a lot to post. Some people had to spend $60 in postage alone to send their gift to their person last year. Gift smart! Remember that there is also the initial $5 donation to play.


In 2012 we separated the group into 4 groups to make it easier for people who couldn’t afford postage overseas. We will be doing this again, and adding in Asia. You can choose either WORLDWIDE, AUSTRALIA/NEW ZEALAND, USA/CANADA, UK/EUROPE/IRELAND, and ASIA. So you can either choose worldwide {meaning you’re willing to send to anyone, no matter where they live. Remembering that this is random so there is a chance you might still get someone located in your own country}. OR you can choose the country you live in to keep your postage costs low.



♥ I am going to send you emails for each step of the way. Please make sure you check your emails so that you can play along. Last year we had almost 400 people play along. It’s hard to chase up on people, so please make it easier for me by checking your email and following the instructions.

♥ Please only play if you’re going to participate properly. It really doesn’t take up too much time, and can be really fun. Participating properly means being social in the Facebook group at least once a week, following through and buying a gift, and wrapping it nicely.

♥ Please know that this is an act of faith. Don’t join the exchange with expectations that you’re going to get that present you’ve always wanted {you can ask your mum, husband, kids, best friends for the stuff you really want}. Your gifter might buy you SOMETHING amazing, but they don’t know you and they’re taking a chance on buying you the right gift. Last year I got cranky emails from people not liking their gifts. It’s an act of hope, a leap of faith and a little bit of kindness.

♥ Last year I spent a lot of my own money buying gifts for people that didn’t get anything. Unfortunately I can’t do this again this year. Please know there is a chance that the mail system might let us down. Parcels do go missing at Christmas time. I honestly think it’s worth taking the chance. The number of parcels that went missing was VERY small.

♥ Please put some thought into your gift. Don’t just send stuff that you were once given and didn’t like. This is also a feel-good exercise, so please try and put in some effort for your person. It’s a really nice thing to do.

The hashtag for the exchange is #FMSgiftexchange. Share photos on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook. I like to share photos when I’ve wrapped my gifts {before sending to get people excited!} and then photos of my gift when it arrives, along with a little thank you to my gifter.

♥ This year I have a helper! Kim will be helping me out with all the admin stuff. You can email either of us at and we’ll get back to you. Kirsty is going to be helping us out on Facebook as well.

I think I’ve covered everything, but if there is anything you want to know, please comment below with your questions or email me at

Thank you so much for your interest. The gift exchange is now closed. We are unable to take any late entries, but please keep an eye out to play next year.

If you’d like to donate to Rafiki Mwema to support the girls, you can do so here. They will SO appreciate it.